who should make the starter?
"Alright little bastard c’mere," Sanji said, picking him up with a begrudging grin. He was too cute, it just wasn’t fair. Sanji’d always been decent with kids. They tended to like him even if he didn’t particularly like them, but he didn’t really mind, no matter what he’d said.
He sat on his couch, holding the little green haired mossball close. With his free hand he turned on the television to whatever channel was last on, just to have some background noise. He really didn’t like quiet much. He held the little guy in his arms, just absently watching tv. It was nice. He could get used to this feeling.
Offering the blond a somewhat toothless smirk, the infant contently rested in his grasp until he heard a sudden burst of sound.
Instantly dropping his keys, the boy’s eyes darted around until they rested upon the television. Unsure of what to make of it, the mossy haired tot stared it down and began to slowly become absorbed within all of the colors and movement.
if you ever try to befriend me and you expect to be in frequent contact with me i am so sorry. i do that with maybe two people and even then i often go days or weeks withouts saying anything before talking daily for a while.
the point is if we dont talk that doesnt mean i dont like u and think about u a lot im just terrible at maintaining close relationships
she ate a sock string and it’s stuck in her intestines and she’s gonna die if I don’t get her surgery. I’m about 600 dollars short, I have a donate button if anyone can help. i can show vet bills to anyone who wants to see. she’s such a good baby please help or reblog if you can im really scared I’m gonna lose her
edit: this is the bill from yesterday when we got her the xrays (the radiographs per snap) and a few other things to hold her over until we can build up some money. im taking her in today at 2:40 and ill ask for a copy of the surgery bill if i can get one (they didnt give me one yesterday because i couldnt even pay for everything on the last bill)
im also adding a picture we took of her on the vets table yesterday
reblogging with added proof
*******UPDATE****** the vet we were taking her can not care for her anymore (because they close) and she needs to go into surgery immediately, we have her boarded at an emergency vet and the surgery is gonna be roughly 1500. we’ve raised 520 so far and they can start helping her because I have proof that I have money coming but we can’t take her home until we pay. I’m going to be at the emergency vet in about 4 hours and I will post proof of bills, everything’s going really fast because she’s getting worse and worse so please help if you can
we just got rejected for credit care which we were hoping to get, these donations are now the /only/ thing we have to pay her vet bill. please help
Oh nooo D:
Please let’s help this doggy. :( Everyone please signal boost.
Or, you know, you could just stop saying sorry.
I take it you don’t have anxiety.
You can’t “just stop saying sorry”. You do something, something so little, like accidentally bump into someone. You feel horrible about it. Your brain starts panicking and you have trouble trying to breathe. You stutter an apology. They say it’s okay, but you accidentally do it again, and you apologize again. They just say “Aha, you can stop saying sorry.” And you feel horrible that you’ve probably made them angry or upset, so you mutter out an apology for the third stupid time, and they just say to stop saying sorry. Stop saying sorry.
You can’t just tell someone to stop saying you’re sorry.
I want that comment on flyers so I can hang them in my school
reblogging this one for the GOOD commentary.
If you’re going to tell someone to stop saying sorry say, “You don’t have to apologize to me.” and smile. If they say sorry again just say, “You’re fine.” and keep smiling and move on. The faster the situation is resolved the faster the person with anxiety can start to calm down. Please don’t get angry at someone for saying sorry, sometimes that’s all the person feels like they can do.
I’ve always been really bad about this and as a kid I’d always do it around my parents and my mom would always say “STOP SAYING YOURE SORRY.” thank you to the helpful comment.
What I wish some people would comprehend better is that, we just want to apologize because we think it’s a natural thing to do, but then you hear “Stop saying you’re sorry!” and you can feel anger in the voice. You feel bad because you realize you disappointed someone again for not being able to function properly, for having low self-esteem and confidence from your past experiences in life. You failed again, you made someone annoyed at you again when you meant no harm. You feel like shit again. It’s a vicious cycle. When you’re depressed and when you have anxiety, you’re in these vicious cycles, and it’s so hard to get out of them. Because people want to avoid you, because people gets easily annoyed by the way you are even though you try your hardest to be okay, to act like you’re okay so other people won’t feel bad being around you… But they’re mad, or upset and you end up feeling even guiltier than you already were. It’s a never ending cycle. And let me tell you, it takes a lot of mental strength and time to get out of this loop.